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Here you'll find everything you need to get you started on the road to great, safe and sexy sex. 

Guide to Lubricant

Think you're a bit of a sex god? Think your sex is the best it can be? Well unless you're using lubricant, and the right kind of lubricant, chances are you're dead wrong! Find out what lube goes where and when with this guide. 

Guide to Anal

Curious about what goes on way down south? Heard people talking about amazing anal sex or intense prostate pleasure, but don't know whether you're up for it? With this easy guide we'll walk you through the 8 steps to anal pleasure! 

Guide to dildos

While the dildo is one of the more basic sex toys, that doesn't mean that buying one is a simple process. In this guide we walk you through all the different options available in dildos and what they mean to you as a user.

Guide to Female orgasms

The jokes abound about female orgasms being the ultimate mystery, but are they actually that complicated? How many different types are there? What even happens during an orgasm? Find out!

Guide to STIs

Sexually Transmitted Infections are part of the Russian Roulette of having multiple partners, but regardless of how safe you like to play it, it's still important to know what the signs and symptoms are and what to do if you think you've contracted one.

Guide to Visiting a Brothel

Never been to a brothel before? Considering visiting a sex worker? Learn what to wear, what to say, how to prepare, and what to avoid; all before you set foot in the front door! 

Guide to consent

If you feel like you've never received the comprehensive breakdown of what consent actually entails, that's quite possibly because most of us haven't! So here for everyone's benefit is a guide on how to not rape people!

Guide to Clitoral vibes

Thinking of buying a clitoral vibrator? Overwhelmed by choice and not sure what all of these weird contraptions actually do? Never fear. We've go you covered! Learn about the different types and which one will suit you!

Guide to the g-spot

If you put the g-spot in the same category as Atlantis (in that they're both precious discoveries that require you to get a little wet to find them) then look no further. We've put together a quick, beginners guide.

Guide to the pelvic floor

You've heard of ben-wa balls, kegels and jade eggs, but have you ever wondered what your pelvic floor actually does? Why is it so important to strengthen it? Well it's probably time you found out!

Guide to satisfyingly safe sex

There's a general misconception that practicing safe sex means forgoing a significant amount of pleasure. This is a condom full of lies! Safe sex can be every bit as satisfying and pleasurable as its bareback counterpart.

Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy

There’s more than one way of having a relationship, especially if you’re open to the idea of non-monogamy. Here are just a few relationship structures that are worth considering.

Guide to buying your first toy

If you've never bought a sex toy before, it can seem like a daunting task. So many different ones to chose from, in all different colours, shapes and sizes. But never fear, Smut Buttons has you covered.

Guide to identities

Many people find themselves concerned about fucking up when it comes to other people's identities. If you're worried you don't know enough, then be sure to check out our simple guide to GSRM - Gender, Sexual and Romantic Minorities. 

Guide to internal vibrators

It can be hard to know where to start when it comes to vibrator shopping. Especially if the only one you've ever heard of is the Rabbit. Find out why you want to avoid putting the bunny near your easter basket and which brands are making better options!

Guide to male masturbators

This is a guide to the delightful things you can pleasure your penis with, but you'll most commonly find these items referred to as male masturbators. So what kind of cock socks are on the market, and which ones should you be investing your time and money in? Find out!

Guide to modern vasectomy

Think you know what a vasectomy looks like? Chances are you're wrong. Find out more about the procedure that will save you money, keep you from having more kids, and make your sex life better on all fronts.


You want to give someone the gift of unlimited orgasms - that’s a noble goal! But there are a few things you need to know before you start showering your loved ones in dildos.