The G-Spot: If you find it, they will come

People...there's this thing. You might not have heard of it. It's pretty underground...It's called the G-Spot. 


Fun fact: The G stands for Gräfenberg, after Ernst Gräfenberg, a German gynaecologist. Because while there's nothing quite like naming women's anatomy after men, you have to admit those Germans knew how to make gynaecology fun.

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Now here’s the thing about g-spots; it’s actually pretty hard to talk about them without making some people very angry. There’s still a bit of contention in the scientific community as to whether or not it actually exists. I would postulate that most of the people disputing its existence have never actually owned a vagina, but hey, that’s just like my opinion, man.


Part of the reason it’s such a fraught issue is that, while many vagina owners report having spectacular orgasms as a result of g-spot stimulation, there are also a significant number of them who remain unable to find this holy land of the vag. If the g-spot does exist, many professional sexologists are concerned that people who are unable to achieve orgasms through internal stimulation alone, will view this as a form of sexual dysfunction. If the g-spot doesn’t exist, well the question is why the hell does that particular spot happen to feel so fucking amazing on such a significant percentage of vaginas.


But let’s operate under the assumption from here on out that the G-spot is in fact a scientific certainty and that there will be no further conflict on earth ever again. Huzzah!

Now, comes the tricky part. Finding the damn thing. Because the g-spot is sneaky like hobbitses, it’s easiest to imagine it this way; picture where a clitoris is, now imagine where the back of the clitoris would be, on the inside. 

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So if you were to stimulate this manually, you would want to insert a finger and crook it towards the clitoris in a “come hither” fashion…and come hither you should, because g-spot stimulation is the most fun you can have outside of a roller derby. 

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It's important to remember that the g-spot is notoriously elusive. One thing that can help draw it out is direct and intense clitoral stimulation. If digital stimulation (read: rubbing your fingers furiously across the clit) isn't doing the trick, try a clitoral vibrator.

If you can't find it, or if it's not really feeling as amazing as you'd anticipated, that's okay. Not every g-spot is made equal; some will be more pronounced than others, and some will be more sensitive than others. Just keep exploring and if fingering the g-spot isn't working, don't be afraid to try toys

Remember how we were saying that you want a kind of "come hither" shape to hit that sweet spot? Well when you're looking at toys, that's going to translate to a fairly intense curve. The harder it curves inwards, the more likely it’s going to be to hit the right spot. We've reviewed several such toys on this site, simply search for 'g-spot' and you'll find them all!  

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Kink.com actually ran a live sex-ed class featuring the g-spot. Sadly I don't think this is the kind of thing we'll be able to replicate in Australia, outside of maybe a brothel. But if you're interested in getting to know your g-spot better, I recommend that you purchase yourself a speculum and go spelunking in your rose-wet cave


So there you go, dear readers, your introductory guide to the g-spot. I hope this has helped you in your endeavour to enjoy or provide explosive orgasms. And if all else fails, remember...

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That is all.

You may go now.